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I'm a father, cyclists, mentor, investor, a believer in humanity and what you put out to the universe, you receive back in multiples.

Hello Irma part 1

I rode out my first hurricane in Orlando, waiting for it to pass so we could get to work. It was also the first time I would actually be paid to help in a disaster response.

I flew into Tampa four days before Hurricane Irma was expected to make landfall on Florida’s west coast. Irma was massive—one of those storms you knew would cause damage no matter where she hit. For three days, my job was staging incoming rigs arriving from all over the country—and even Canada. Bucket trucks, pickups, heavy equipment—everything you could imagine rolled in. All of the Orlando staging was at Epcot, and coordinating that volume of equipment was no small task. Still, the drivers and crews were patient and easy to work with.

That’s where I met Donald Carter—DC—the lead for PowerSecure. I also met several crews from Florida Power & Light. DC and I hit it off immediately, and before long, I became a go-to person. If something needed to get done, they knew my crew and I would handle it.

So many trucks:)

Day 0 was landfall. I was staying at the Hilton, thankfully equipped with hurricane-rated windows. The worst of the storm came through overnight, and by morning the winds had dropped to around 50 mph. We headed to Epcot early. The mission was clear: fuel the fleet.

By 7 a.m., we began lining up more than 600 diesel trucks and nearly the same number of gasoline vehicles. Fuel trucks were on site by 9 a.m., but the refueling crews hadn’t yet been released due to wind conditions. Food, water, and fuel were delayed that first morning, but the issues were resolved fairly quickly. Around noon, fueling finally began.

Everyone was understanding and eager to get fueled and deployed to rally points across the state.

While reviewing the fuel logs, I asked the fueling team if we had enough fuel to finish. I was told, “We should be fine.” That wasn’t good enough. I needed certainty. The only way to be sure, they said, was to physically measure the tanks.

I reviewed the logs, estimated the remaining fuel needs—about 26 gallons per truck—and quietly called my FPL point of contact to come to the site. This wasn’t information you shared over the radio. If drivers thought fuel might run out, frustration would spread fast. I also had one of my crew get an exact count of remaining trucks.

The numbers came in: 132 trucks left. Available fuel: about 1,400 gallons.

I told the FPL logistics supervisor that, based on estimates, we would run dry with roughly 75 trucks still waiting. We were fueling fast with two lines, so we needed more fuel immediately. A refuel tanker was about 30 minutes out, and she made the call to bring it in.

Right after that decision, we dropped to one fueling line and began drawing from the last tank. That slowdown bought us time. And in a moment I’ll never forget, the final tank ran dry just as the refueler finished filling one of the tanker’s empty compartments. Perfect timing.

I counted again—81 trucks left.

Here’s the takeaway: my job description didn’t say “prevent a fuel failure.” There was no SOP manual for that moment. I was told to manage fueling and log it. That was it. But I understood what it meant if those trucks didn’t roll—power restoration would be delayed, possibly affecting hundreds or thousands of people.

When you’re part of a team, your role—no matter how small it seems—matters. The ripple effect of doing (or not doing) your job can be far bigger than you realize.

I was thanked for going above and beyond, and several FPL supervisors passed my name up the logistics chain. DC also shared my efforts with PowerSecure leadership. Later that evening, DC received an email requesting that my team relocate immediately from Orlando to West Palm Beach. That was the site of FPL main distribution center and operations HQ.

It was 7 p.m. I had to gather the team, check out, eat, and hit the road for a 2–3 hour drive. We arrived just after 11 p.m.

Day 1 would begin in the morning.

Cannon Ball Run Race Report (Coffee Stranger)

After 12 hours on the road, from Houston, to get to Kansas City to handle some business. I am in KC for about 3 hours then I head north to Mason City Iowa for a cyclo-cross race. For a total of 17 hours on the road out of 24. So, not the best way to start a race weekend. Not to mention, I did not ride a bike since last Sunday. Trudging through water for 13 hours is exercise right?

Prior to arriving in Mason city at 8pm my Air bnb host Crystal sent me a text asking if I wanted spaghetti or chicken with spaghetti squash. Since I only eat fish I was happy with the squash with butter and garlic. I thought it may have been a bit assumptive but, a closed mouth doesn’t get fed right? She actually made it and it was amazing. Man did I pick the right house. Not that there were a plethora to choose from. Crystal and I hit it off and as I ate we talked and hung out then finished watching a movie. It was very comfortable and she made me feel at home. Air bnb strangers are some of the best to meet.

This was the first CX of the year and I wanted to see how I stacked up against the Masters 45+. The course was awesome and very technical. I finished 9th out of 15, beating 4 guys that were higher ranked. I was 1st in the Cat 4.  After the race I sent a text to Crystal that I would return soon. Of course she asked if I was hungry. Once again, not turning that down:) Her friend had caught some crapi and thought that would be outstanding. When I returned Crystal helped with my laundry and we made dinner together. At this point, this is what I call a race wife:) It is a phrase I heard when I rode across Iowa 5 years ago. It is a person who takes care of the basic needs. A race husband is similar, but they generally take care of bikes, tent set up, you know more of the heavy lifting:) It is primitive yes, but it is very much an effective relationship and most needs are met from both sides. By the way I am an exceptional race/ride husband and father.

Sundays race time was at 12pm and I got to the course at 8:30am to ride around and just test out the course again. The direction changed and it was a bit more technical. after my pre-ride I rode over to a coffee shop that was near by. I sat down to finish the Harvey blog and have a veggie burrito and coffee. As I sat there writing an man came in and ordered a latte with soy milk and sat at the table next to me. I was pretty sure that once I finished writing I would look up and start a conversation. Just before I finished he sneezed, I said bless you and that was a perfect time to end my writing and indulge in my second favorite hobby, meeting strangers. He asked if I was racing and I said yes and I did yesterday too. His name was Garen and he went on to explain how he went over yesterday to race and after getting on the course and getting to the top of the flyover, which is a wooden structure you walk up and then ride down the other side. It is very steep and I even questioned riding down it, he backed out and went home. I have to give him credit for admitting that. Most men are to proud and would never mention it. We spoke a bit more about the course and cycling. I can tell he really wanted to do it. So, I encouraged him to go get his bike and I would lower his tire pressure and ride the course with him. I am both affable and manipulative but only for a positive outcome for all involved. So, Garrett went back to his house to get his bike and I prepared for the race near my truck. I was surprised when he showed up and actually had tires that would do pretty well on this course. I dropped his tire pressure and had him ride around in the grass with me. Not to bad for a virgin racing in the 65+ category:)  We rode the course a bit and on a steep hill I told him to use his rear brakes mostly.  Well, he grabbed his front brake and slid out. I asked if he was hurt he said no and then asked which one was the rear break? I laughed and said the one on the right and rode ahead. I was a bit concerned for his safety at this point and thought that if he raced today he might incur an injury. so, I let up a bit on the talking him into racing and went on to do some dismount and whole shot work. Just before our race I had enough time to ride the course. I lined up and here comes Jarrett. I look over and asked if he signed up. He turned a bit and showed me his number on his right side. I told him to be safe and said a quick prayer:) If he died in the race then at least I gave him the permission slip to enter into cycling heaven. I had lapped him twice so he had to of finished 4 laps. When I went through the finish line I half expected to see Jerry sitting on the side drinking one of the free Sierra Nevadas. But, he was no where to be found. Did he go home? surely not! After a few minutes I see his rainbow Campagnolo kit out in the distance. I filled a cup of water to douse him with and grabbed a beer to open to celebrate his victory!!! I was super proud to see him finish. I have to say, I have seen some good riders stop in the middle of a race because it is just to taxing. But not Terry, he was all in and not at all a quitter.

So many strangers this weekend. Remember, every friend you have today was once a stranger.

Gary and I

 

Charlie came down from WI
This lil guy challenged me to a race
Barriers

The Harvey Wallbanger

This Harvey wasn’t something you pour into a highball glass—though he left one hell of a hangover. This was Hurricane Harvey, relentlessly pounding the Houston area for days.

As I watched Harvey form and heard he would stall over Houston, Corpus Christi, and the surrounding areas, I wrestled with the decision to go help. After a full day of debating—mostly with myself—I knew the answer. Ellen and I talked about it that Monday at the office. She knew. I knew. I needed to go.

I left Tuesday mid-morning, drove to Dallas, caught a few hours of sleep at my friends Rich and Monica’s place, then hit the road again around 1 a.m. That put me in Houston around 5 a.m. The only question left was: where exactly should I go?

I’ve learned that when I do this kind of work, I’m usually pointed in the right direction—call it God, fate, the universe, or dumb luck. About two hours outside Houston, I tuned into the North Houston rescue channel on Zello. I heard Port Arthur and Beaumont were getting hammered, with water rising fast. I punched Port Arthur into the GPS and headed east.

An hour outside Beaumont, I spotted two trucks hauling flat-bottom boats. Something told me to follow them. They pulled into a gas station for diesel, and I introduced myself. The older man was Jimmie. He ran a pizza oven cleaning business in Houston, and the younger driver was his son-in-law. They were headed to Port Arthur. I asked if I could tag along and help. It was 5 a.m., and we needed to move fast.

Two routes were flooded out completely. The third got us there—pushing through nearly two feet of water. Zello helped us navigate, and we launched from a Walmart parking lot.

Port Arthur Rescues

As Jimmie prepped the boats, I grabbed my medical bag and rope. We launched, and I took on the job of comms—listening for the highest-priority calls. Our first rescue was a family floating in an inflatable swimming pool, two men pulling it through floodwater. We loaded the entire family—pool included—into the boats and got them to safety.

“Where to next?” Jimmie asked.

I scanned addresses and routed us toward multiple high-water calls. Along the way, we ran into the Coast Guard trying to access a senior housing complex called Legacy Senior Housing. Water there was waist- to chest-deep. The concern was immediate: elderly residents, some possibly fallen or wheelchair-bound.

Jimmie and I started door to door, wading through the water, knocking and calling out. At one unit, the door was open but the screen locked. As we were about to force entry, an elderly man emerged. Across the way, I noticed a flicker of light behind blinds in another unit.

I crossed the flooded “parking lot” and knocked. I heard a faint sound. The door was unlocked.

Inside sat an elderly woman in a battery-powered wheelchair, stranded in the middle of the room. She had been there for about 13 hours. If the water had risen another foot, she wouldn’t have survived.

I yelled for Jimmie. We’d need help. Within minutes, three Coast Guard members arrived. Together, we lifted this woman—carefully—into a 14-foot flat-bottom boat. She insisted we take her wheelchair too. I argued—it was another 100 pounds—but she wouldn’t leave without it. So we loaded it.

I took lookout at the bow. As I tried to see past her, I barely caught a submerged brick mailbox dead ahead. I yelled and reached out—but we hit it just off center. The boat lifted, twisted, and I lunged forward, grabbing the woman and throwing my weight over the side to counterbalance.

I remember thinking, If we flip, I’m not letting her drown.

The motor shut down. We slid off the mailbox and leveled out.

“Well,” I said, breathing hard, “that was close.”

Jimmie shrugged—no words needed. We got everyone safely to dry land.


Nursing Home Evacuation

On another run to Legacy, we were asked to transport a woman and a sheriff to Cypress Glen Nursing Home. Management initially refused to evacuate residents—likely due to liability. That changed when the sheriff arrived.

The place smelled of urine and feces. There were 50–100 residents. Some could move with assistance; others were bedridden and had to be evacuated on mattresses into larger boats and fan boats.

As Jimmie ferried residents out, I stayed behind—lifting, assisting, and marking cleared rooms with white medical tape. And yes, we rechecked them. Again and again.

By dusk, we were done. Exhausted. Hungry. We loaded the boats, said our goodbyes, and I finally ate a peanut butter sandwich next to my truck.

Beaumont and Beyond

I headed to Beaumont to drop supplies at a church, ate dinner, and tried to push farther out—but flooded roads stopped me. I slept in my truck at Triumph Church.

At dawn, water had risen again. Zello chatter pointed to Vidor, Texas. I headed there—nearly drowning my truck in the process. Every open gas station or dollar store meant more diapers, formula, and dog food. I spent nearly $2,000—offset by $1,520 raised by friends and family.

Most of the day was spent ferrying people across flooded streets and helping smaller vehicles reach Highway 10. When my truck took water up to the headlights, I knew they wouldn’t make it without help.

That night, I parked at an LDS church and tried to sleep. Around 1 a.m., I got texts from a contractor—one of my guys had been stealing. From him. From me. From a tenant. That was it.

I knew I’d be back to Houston. But I also knew I had to deal with this immediately.

So I headed for Kansas City. Twelve hours on the road. I rolled in around 3 p.m.

There was more work to do. There always is.

Thanks for reading—and always meet new strangers… unless their name is Harvey.


 

The forgotten Monday Race report from 8/21/2017

This weekend took me to Papillion, NE for the Papillion twilight criterium.  I have never been to Papillion before so I was excited to see how this race would compare to others. It did not disappoint. I made it to the race around noon and the volunteers were just setting everything up. I had a chance to meet Matt, the race director, and of course asked if he needed any help setting up. They had everything rolling very smooth. He gave me a few pointers about the course and the possible rough spots.

This was going to be my last road race for the US Military Endurance Sports team. I am moving my affiliation to a local team here in Kansas City called KCBC. I have had several guys ask me to be a part of their team, but I feel that these are the guys I can help and in turn they can help me move up. You will hear more about the KCBC team in the near future. I will be staying with USMES for the cross season.

My 1st race was the 40+ Masters. This race has all fields represented from category 1 to category 4. Being a cat 4 in this race is like racing a Chevy Corvette against a Honda prelude. Out of the 8, 40+ guys I finished 3rd. There were a total of 15 in the race and I was 6th overall. This was my best road finish ever. I actually only signed up for the race because there was another USMES guy that was supposed to race in it. His name was William O’Brien and he was nice enough to take the picture below. I want to thank William for not showing up, and giving me 3rd place:) My guess is that he would have been right there with me. In this race I worked much smarter than harder. This really was my only option because the majority of the guys out there were faster than me. So, instead of spending any time out front, I had to sit in and tail gun. This basically means hold on for dear life. I did get dropped during the prime lap, but was able to work with one other guy to catch the small pack that broke away. That took almost everything out of me. I did have about one match to burn in the sprint and I actually used it to pass one guy and go head to head with my fellow dropee. in the last turn he was in lead and I pulled up next to him and just laid it down. We both worked hard in that last 100m. At the last second I did a bike throw and just beat him by a tenth of a second. After the race we congratulated each other on a hard fought race and of course I had to make sure he was a 50+ racer. He was, I laughed and thanked him again for all his work to catch the pack. I didn’t realize that I took 3rd so when the results came out, I said out loud, “I took third”? Totally surprised by that finish. I say that because I always know where I am in a race. You have to or you might miss a guy go around a turn and break away from the pack. I was working so hard to hold on, the only thing I could pay attention to was the wheel in front of me and the turns.

The next race was about 2 hours after. I had to eat and try to keep off my feet. Both I did with some success. I was surprised to see several cat 4 guys from KC show up. Actually, KC had about 10-15 racers show up. I will post a link to the results later. In the cat 4 race I knew what I had to do and I knew the course. The one thing I did not know is would my legs hold up. I also was 100% that I was mentally all in. Not that I am ever not:) This race had a cat 4 national champion in it and of course he was 14 years old. His name was Luke and both him and his father were very pleasant to talk with.  During the race Luke and I ended up in a small group behind a 6 man break, that are very tough to catch. I worked as much as I could for him. He sat in for a bit until he knew that he could bridge the gap. When he took off I tried to hang on but since I was just in the wind pulling for him, I was dropped. I did manage to hold on to two of the guys with our 4 man pack. This meant that there were 7 in the pack ahead and 6 laps to go. Want to guess the odds of a 3 man pack catching the 7 in the pack ahead? Slim and none. So, I worked hard with 4 laps to go then 3 laps to go. As I came across the finish line and saw 2 laps to go, I noticed a shadow behind me. These two guys were on my ass and having me drag them around the course. I sat up, dropped my speed to 15 and they were still behind me. I moved to the left and dropped my speed even more and insisted that they pull through. Then one of them jumped and jumped hard, they almost dropped me with 2 laps to go. I made them both pull for those final laps and in the sprint I had the choice of taking 8th, 9th or 10th. We all went into that final turn at top speed and in the sprint I took 2nd out of the three of us and secured a 9th overall out of 25. The legs did well!

After the cat 4 race I sat with Chris from foodys and watched the 3’s race and then the pro 1,2. By the time the pro 1,2 race started it was Chris, Zach and Finn (son o

f Shad, cat 1 racer) sitting around. This is why I stick around the races. To support those guys and girls out there but to also hang out with people I may have never had the chance to meet. Out of the 4 of us we had a span of 4 generations. Finn 11, Zach 26, Chris 33 and me 48. I think that’s pretty awesome. We sat around, watched the race and watched Finn do his BMX tricks, poked fun of each other and, for me at least, just enjoyed every ones company. Racing is fun, but hanging out with these 3 was way more entertaining. After the race, Chris and I were going to grab a bite at the local brewery and asked Zach and Jordan (cat 2 racer from KC) if they wanted to join us. We all met at Nebraska brewing and had a beer, ate dinner and cracked jokes all night and just relaxed. I did tell a few war stories:) I might share some of those here one day.

Thank you for reading. Now go out and meet a stranger and be nice to cyclist:)

 

Monday Race report 8/28/2017

This weekend took me back to the great city of Hutchinson KS for the state time trial. Overall the showing was fairly low, under 50. The race was delayed 45 minutes because of a storm front that moved in rather quickly. This was a great idea. It cooled it down and cleaned the roads for us:)

The night before the race I decided to go to the Olive Garden, since it was right across the street from the hotel I was staying. As I was sitting at the bar eating a salad, in walks the guys from 360. 360 is a large, mostly masters racers. They sat down at the bar with me and we had some great conversation. It was great to sit and chat with Jessse Brown and all the guys.

A time trial is basically, you ride 40k as fast as you can on your own. They stagger the racers 1 minute apart and if you catch the person ahead of you, you can not draft off of them. My goal time was 59:51. That meant I had to do 25mph for the entire 40k. I ended up doing 24.5mph and missing my goal by only 47 seconds, although still taking 1st place in the Cat 4 mens race.

I worked hard and looked at my goal of 59:51 everyday for a week and I wrote it on my forearm before the race. I was very focused. I think sometimes people want something in life and they go at it half hearted or sideways. It has to burn inside of you. I was not striving for 1st. I was going for something bigger than that. It was to beat a number that seemed impossible to me a year ago. Now it is going to happen.

A dream with out action is just a dream. Strive to be the best and great things will happen.

Thank you for reading.

The Night I Chose to Step In: A True Story from the Streets of Kansas City

By Mike Ivancic

What do you do when you’re staring down the barrel of a life-altering decision? When a young rookie cop is shouting at you to drop your weapon, and you’ve got your foot on the neck of a teenager with a black matte .45 just a few feet from your face?

Seven years ago, I found myself on that precipice—on a muddy stairwell behind an apartment building I managed—my 9mm Desert Eagle pressed against the skull of a 16-year-old boy named Akuru Chan. But to understand how I got there, we have to go back.

It was the spring of 2010. I was 41, managing 50 properties, juggling a pending divorce, and raising three kids, ages 8 to 13. My life was messy—literally and figuratively. I was living with my girlfriend on 57th Street with an ex-meth addict named Kenny “Fuckin” Farmer living in the basement. (Yes, that’s how he first introduced himself.)

One night around midnight, I got a call from Tyrone—an Army Ranger veteran and tenant of mine. “Mike, you need to get over here. Some shit’s about to go down.” Tyrone lived in one of my buildings on 9th Street, and even though drugs had taken a toll on him, he was a good man. So, when he called, I didn’t ask questions. I got out of bed, grabbed my gun, and called for Kenny.

With a Mossberg pump-action in Kenny’s hands and my pistol in mine, we rolled out in my1979 Ford Econoline. I also called the police and told them there were armed suspects behind the building and to approach from the 9th Street side. Of course, they didn’t.

I beat the patrol cars to the scene and took the 9th Street driveway myself—slamming through mud and gravel at 40 mph. I jumped out of the van before it stopped, yelling at the group of young men loitering behind the complex. One bolted. I chased him.

That young man was Akuru Chan.

He sprinted up the back stairs and, while still climbing, reached behind his waistband and pulled out a chrome .45. I had a split second to act—shoot him in the back, run, or charge him. I chose to go forward.

Somehow, I closed the distance in seconds. I grabbed him by the neck and took him to the deck. My left foot pinned him down while my pistol pressed against the back of his head. I was prepared for anything—except what happened next.

A young rookie officer, still in his light-blue probationary uniform, appeared at the bottom of the stairs. Gun raised. “Drop your weapon!” he shouted.

I shouted back, “Fuck you, get me some handcuffs!”

He repeated himself. So did I.

Then, another officer—a familiar face—walked calmly around the corner. “Hey Mike, what’s going on?” No panic. No gun drawn. Just a man who knew me and knew the streets. I holstered my weapon and explained the situation.

They cuffed Akuru and took him down the stairs. But Kenny called out—they’d missed the gun. It was stashed in a stove on the deck. I led an officer back up to retrieve it. Along with the weapon, they found stolen property and drugs.

Akuru, just 16 at the time, was ultimately let go with minimal consequences. Years later, he was sentenced to 12 years in prison for first-degree burglary and attempted robbery. I often wonder what could’ve changed his trajectory. His name in a headline could have been about a graduation, a youth mentorship program, or a second chance. But it wasn’t.

We failed him—his family, the system, all of us. And I carry that truth with me.

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As for the rest of the cast that night?

Kenny “Fuckin” Farmer got clean and now lives with his partner, a woman in the legal field. My Hungarian girlfriend and I shared eight years together before she moved to Portland with her dog Sodapop and her cat Indie.

I’ve lived a life filled with unpredictable moments, but I believe this: sometimes a stranger just needs a friend. And sometimes, it’s okay to be that friend—if only for a night.

Thank you for reading my blog.

Monday Race report 8/21/2017

This weekend took me to Papillion, NE for the Papillion twilight criterium.  I have never been to Papillion before so I was excited to see how this race would compare to others. It did not disappoint. I made it to the race around noon and the volunteers were just setting everything up. I had a chance to meet Matt, the race director, and of course asked if he needed any help setting up. they had everything rolling very smooth. He gave me a few pointers about the course and the possible rough spots.

This was going to be my last road race for the US Military Endurance Sports team. I am moving my affiliation to a local team here in Kansas City called KCBC. I have had several guys ask to be a part of their team, but I feel that these are the guys I can help and in turn they can help me move up. You will hear more about the KCBC team in the near future. I will be staying with USMES for the cross season.

My 1st race was the 40+ Masters. This race has all fields represented from category 1 to category 4. Being a cat 4 in this race is like racing a Chevy Corvette against a Honda prelude. Out of the 8, 40+ guys I finished 3rd. There were a total of 15 in the race and I was 6th overall. This was my best road finish ever. I actually only signed up for the race because there was another USMES guy that was supposed to race in it. His name was William O’Brien and he was nice enough to take the picture below. I want to thank William for not showing up, and giving me 3rd place:) My guess is that he would have been right there with me. In this race I worked much smarter than harder. This really was my only option because the majority of the guys out there were faster than me. So, instead of spending any time out front, I had to sit in and tail gun. This basically means hold on for dear life. I did get dropped during the prime lap, but was able to work with one other guy to catch the small pack that broke away. That took almost everything out of me. I did have about one match to burn in the sprint and I actually used it to pass one guy and go head to head with my fellow dropee. in the last turn he was in lead and I pulled up next to him and just laid it down. We both worked hard in that last 100m. At the last second I did a bike throw and just beat him by a tenth of a second. After the race we congratulated each other on a hard fought race and of course I had to make sure he was a 50+ racer. He was, I laughed and thanked him again for all his work to catch the pack. I didn’t realize that I took 3rd so when the results came out, I said out loud, “I took third”? Totally surprised by that finish. I say that because I always know where I am in a race. You have to or you might miss a guy go around a turn and break away from the pack. I was working so hard to hold on, the only thing I could pay attention to was the wheel in front of me and the turns.

The next race was about 2 hours after. I had to eat and try to keep off my feet. Both I did with some success. I was surprised to see several cat 4 guys from KC show up. Actually, KC had about 10-15 racers show up. I will post a link to the results later. In the cat 4 race I knew what I had to do and I knew the course. The one thing I did not know is would my legs hold up. I also was 100% that I was mentally all in. Not that I am ever not:) This race had a cat 4 national champion in it and of course he was 14 years old. His name was Luke and both him and his father were very pleasant to talk with.  During the race Luke and I ended up in a small group behind a 6 man break, that are very tough to catch. I worked as much as I could for him. He sat in for a bit until he knew that he could bridge the gap. When he took off I tried to hang on but since I was in the wind pulling, I was dropped. I did manage to hold on to two of the guys with our 4 man pack. This meant that there were 7 in the pack ahead and 6 laps to go. Want to guess the odds of a 3 man pack catching the 7 in the pack ahead? Slim and none. So, I worked hard with 4 laps to go then 3 laps to go. As I came across the finish line and saw 2 laps to go, I noticed a shadow behind me. These two guys were on my ass and having me drag them around the course. I sat up, dropped my speed to 15 and they were still behind me. I moved to the left and dropped my speed even more and insisted that they pull. Then one of them jumped and jumped hard, they almost dropped me with 2 laps to go. I made them both pull for those final laps and in the sprint I had the choice of taking 8th, 9th or 10th. We all went into that final turn at top speed and in the sprint I took 2nd out of the three of us and secured a 9th overall out of 25. The legs did well!

After the cat 4 race I sat with Chris from foodys and watched the 3’s race and then the pro 1,2. By the time the pro 1,2 race started it was Chris, Zach and Finn (son of Shad, cat 1 racer) sitting around. This is why I stick around the races. To support those guys and girls out there but to also hang out with people I may have never had the chance to meet. Out of the 4 of us we had a span of 4 generations. Finn 11, Zach 26, Chris 33 and me 48. I think that’s pretty awesome. We sat around, watched the race and watched Finn do his BMX tricks, poked fun of each other and, for me at least, just enjoyed every ones company. Racing is fun, but hanging out with these 3 was way more entertaining. After the race, Chris and I were going to grab a bite at the local brewery and asked Zach and Jordan (cat 2 racer from KC) if they wanted to join us. We all met at Nebraska brewing and had a beer, ate dinner and cracked jokes all night and just relaxed. I did tell a few war stories:) I might share some of those here one day.

Thank you for reading. Now go out and meet a stranger and be nice to cyclist:)

 

When a friend becomes a stranger

Most of what I write about is the good in when I meet people and the fun that is had. Sometimes, as we all know, there is pain in meeting strangers. You know, the stranger you may have met 8 or 9 years ago or maybe just 6 months back. Either way, that stranger became your friend and you went all in to be theirs. When I make new strangers I don’t think of when will this turn into a friendship and or when will it end. I hope it never does, but I understand that everything has an expiration date. We will die, a relationship will end and your guacamole will turn brown. When this happens there is pain from that loss (maybe not the guac). So, how do you handle that? Do you sit around and feel sorry for yourself, angry, bitter and or blame yourself? Obviously there are many stages and we all go through them at different times. All I know is that time heals all wounds. Here is what I have heard and learned. If you were involved with someone romantically for 10 years, It will take about 5 years until you are fully over that and have moved on. It’s not magic and at midnight exactly 5 years from your break up all will be well. It’s a gradual slope. When a friend or family member dies it is no different. I don’t think you completely forget or am I suggesting you should. We will generally remember the good times and those will stay with you. I know how I deal with loss and although it may seem that I don’t have any feelings to some:) It is just that I look at the positive and try not to be selfish. If you think about it, when a relationship ends or a friend dies, we are wanting that person back so we can feel better, right? This is a general statement and I know that is not always the case for everyone.

So, If you have had a friend, lover or family member become a stranger. You are not alone and all will be right with your part of the world. Maybe in a few days or years it will come back around or maybe you will never cross paths again. Either way, what is meant to be will be and you never have control over that. 222-logo-325-x-325

I hope that all of the strangers you meet become friends and are with you until you breath your last breath.

Monday Race Report 8/7/2017

No races to report on. I was going to go to the Missouri State championship crits but decided with all the rain on Saturday and the potential rain on Sunday, I would stay in KC and see what I can get into on a Sunday afternoon.

Here is what it did all day on Saturday. I did get in a 25 mile ride in the morning and half way through it started to rain and did not stop until late that night.

Here is what I did most of the day on Saturday. Did some work, listened to music and hung out with the most loyal of friends, Ponyboy! Pony is one of 36 rescues. No, I do not have 36 dogs. Him and his brother Dallas are the only two that I kept. Dallas is now with Ellana and comes to the office everyday to annoy his brother.

Sunday, after some work, I finally got to ride. Sometime you just have to go and let whatever happen, happen. No plans or agendas. My only plan was to ride to Torn Lable Brewery and see where that takes me. I met a couple from PA and a young lady from D.C. that was in town on business with Sprint. She told me to drink water and eat something. She sounded like my mother:) I also met Porter, a super cute, high energy mutt of a rescue. Then this crew arrived and all hell broke loose!!!

This was the second stop of the day. This is the Sunday morning coffee and beer ride. That Sunday consisted of Jen, Amy, Nick, Bern, Adrian, Dave, Jay, Eddie and me. Such a motley crew. I have to say, this crew can make your side hurt from all the laughing. When ever I am not racing, this is where I would rather be on a Sunday afternoon. I love these guys and gals. They are all very strong riders and also like to drink a beer or two.

Thank you for reading and always Make New Strangers! Especially ones that like good beer.

The RAGBRAI a friendly ride across Iowa 

So, it has been a few years since I have done the RAGBRAI. 5 days of riding across Iowa with 10000 other riders is ok to do every once and a while but no way do I want to do it every year. So, I have decided that this was my last time doing the entire route. I will do a day or two as long as I can do it in an awesome costume made by DK.

The Dom and Gimp costume received the most attention. This outfit also came with a ball gag that was not the most comfortable thing to ride with. At one point, we were in the middle of the beer garden surrounded by people wanting to take a picture. This happened every time we stopped. We were the highlight of RAGBRAI. On this day we rode about 52 miles and by mile 47 I was ready to take the mask off. We stayed in costume the entire 52 miles.

 

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Best outfit of the RAGBRAI

 

 

The ladies of the Elks lodge. We had way to much fun with these ladies and the US Air Force.  This was on Wednesday and it was raining so what better time to sit at the Elks lodge and have a few beers.

Roxy and Heater at the Elks club

There was a Veterans memorial that the VFW designed. It was a nice stop.

Thursday was super friends day. The shenanigans that took place that day are to many to go into detail. Although this is the day we met team stoner, the name we so lovingly gave them. Since one of the guys were a little “unbalanced”, I gave him Gleek, the little blue monkey to keep him balanced. He wore Gleek for at least 2 days straight and possibly that little blue monkey is still around his neck.

Thor, bat girl, wonder woman and the wonder twins

Our super hero crew was supposed to have a villain with it but Toby bailed on it because he doesn’t like to ride in a costume. LAME! He missed out on some serious fun. We made a bunch of new friends that day.

Abigail (BBC) was thor, DK (BeadWhore) was Jayna, I was Zan, Abby was Wonder Woman and Deb (side boob) was Bat Girl.

Thors hammer fit 6 tall boys comfortably.

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As I sat at the entrance to the brewery I made sure no one left with a beer in their hands. I had to help at least 2 people finish their beer:)

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Team stoner:)

It was a fun RAGBRAI and I met a ton of people and strengthened a few relationships that were only acquaintances. DK and I hung out for 8 straight days! That can put a strain on any friendship:) Deb, Abby and Abigail are now part of the inner circle, or am I part of their inner circle. Either way, I love them all. It was a great dynamic and we all played a part in entertaining each other.

By the way, you can fit 10 adults in a port a potty.